Over 15 Reason Why Men Marry “Bitches”

According to the book, ‘Why Men Marry Bitches’ by Sherry Argov, whether you are single, married, recently separated, or just fed up with your family members telling you to fetch a husband because time is running out, a woman must transform to become a committed wife material. However, she explains why being ‘extra nice’ doesn’t necessarily mean a man will be devoted. So what does a woman have to do to get a man’s attention for life, become a “bitch”? Is that what Men really want? The glamour and rumour team had to dig up some interesting responses from the guys. Here is what the men think!


Blame it on the alcohol. Lmao, men realize it’s for better or for worse… so you try to change a hoe to a housewife. Mike Muna – Cameroon

It’s really not about the sex. For some reason, most of them are not really good at sex. Sometimes, you get more attention from them even though they can lie… but when they really like you, you will find that they could be really kind. Davis – Lagos, Nigeria
The bitch-ness in them makes us attracted. That’s what men want and need any day, anytime. Elniel – Ghana
Every woman has a level of ‘bitchness’ in them. It’s just to what degree can they display them, that makes the difference. Men just love when a woman can be a bitch sometimes. So yes, bitches are cool. Anonymous
I don’t know if there is any difference between a girl and a bitch? Girls can be nasty. They can lie. They love money and always want to have without giving any. Bitches do all that too. So that means all women are bitches and me likey! Kenneth Mbah – Kumba, Cameroon
Most girls date more than one guy. They just lie about it. So how different is that from them being bitches? We men have only bitches around us. There are no ‘good girls’ anymore, anywhere. Debo Adekoya – Lagos, Nigeria
Bitches can tell a nice man from a nasty one. They are able to choose wisely because they know the difference. Don’t think other women do. However, it’s not about preference. It’s about the chemistry we (men) get with some of them. Davis – Lagos, Nigeria
Bitches have experience ‘there’. Rich B – Cameroon
I don’t know what’s wrong with us men. We leave decent women and marry a bitch that knows nothing about family values. Master P Letshele – South Africa
Two wussies can’t balance an equation. So the quiet men would marry tough strong women, alright? Tega Kwon – Warri, Nigeria
We only find out when it is too late. Harry Klein – Netherland
Give me a woman and I will show you how much of a bitch she is. Women should stop pretending they are angels when they are worse than the devil. If they like, they should say, “we are not bitchies”, they will stay single forever. Men love the wild women ooh! Peter Freddy – Calabar, Nigeria
Men love bitches only in bed and I think some bitches are for keeps but why marry them, I don’t know! Believe me, they get married every week! Bosso Letshele – South Africa
Why do you think so? Maybe women become bitches after marriage. I don’t think men like to marry bitches. Pierre Hellebaut – Belgium

Well, it was meant for the guys to talk but this lady’s words had to be added here:
Bitches are spontaneous and full of surprises. Their antics are so different and keep men on their feet. Men prefer to be kept on their feet coz it’s a break from their daily routines and sometimes, the ‘good girl attitude’ bores them. Men look up to more exciting and adventurous girls. They prefer women who let them do the chasing and wooing. Rita Foy Ekei – USA